preferences and kinks;

[winterrosed]

Short version:

• Biromantic demisexual.
• Kinky on occasion and a princessy sort of switch.
• As shipping goes: eh maybe depends on the context with Rhaegar, eh maybe depends on the context with Robert, I'd give it a try with Elia, give me a pleasant non-incesutous AU and I might be into it.

Regarding kinks: 

• Yes: vaginal sex, oral sex (giving and receiving), tribbing, teasing, B&D and D/s, dress-up, lingerie, honor bondage, body worship, hair pulling (or brushing), sensory deprivation, sensation play
• Maybe: anal sex, public sex, suspension, temperature play, toys, mild S&M (spanking and the like)
• No: dub/non-con, heavy S&M, orgasm denial, shaving, watersports and other "bathroom" kinks, comeplay, vore, sounding, punishment/humiliation, bloodplay, ageplay, whipping, caning

Ask if something isn't listed.

Regarding partners and relationships:

• Lyanna is about a 3 on the Kinsey scale.  She flirts with everyone equally but it gets taken more seriously with guys so people think she's "straighter," and she doesn't correct them often.
• That said, she does flirt a lot.  In general it contributes to people's perception of her as flightier than she is, but it's more habit than anything else.  She's more demisexual than anything, only getting sexually interested in people she has a bond with, but she flirts idly mostly because she can.
• She can do vanilla and she can do kink and there's not one she prefers over the other.  It depends on her mood, her partner, and the moment itself.  That said, she prefers kink that allows her to be cute and even feminine: not infantilized, but more pampered than punished.  The really hardcore painplay stuff holds no appeal for her.
• She's kind of a switch, but she's used to being looked after, so she's a bossy carefree top and an affectionate but needy sub.

Regarding shipping:

• Instant yes (in canon): well this is complicated.
• Negotiable (in canon): if you want to do Rhaegar stuff let's talk it out first, because if we go there I want to make sure it's completely on the consensual tip (I do tend to believe R+L=J, but I'd rather that have come from consent if we want to play with it.).  Robert requires talking too.  I'd be possibly interested in, say, Elia or whoever else.  I'm not interested in any angsty modern AUs here, really, so everything needs to be consensual and at least semi-pleasant.
• "Types" (particularly for cross-canon): right now she's kind of an open book.  She doesn't like being lorded over.  That's the hardest no at the moment.